I have a 10” newtonian (not a dob) however I rarely use as it is a PITA to lug out and set up, so mostly use one of my 3 (soon to be 4) ‘fracs or my C8 SCT on either a manual mount or goto mount. Also as I live in an urban area when I do get the 10” newt out I don’t see much more than what my C8 SCT can show me anyway, so another reason it rarely gets used at home. If I were at a dark sky site then the 10” newt would trump, but for urban skies the 10” is wasted really, so gathers dust mostly in a spare room. So you may find that the scope that is easier/ quicker to set up and running is normally the one that you will use the majority of the time. You are right there is no wrong answer really, as each scope has its own merits, but in reality if a scope is a pain to set up then it normally ends up not been used much, and just gathers dust where it is stored. If like most of us you stick at astronomy you’ll probably end up trying quite a few different scopes over time, and eventually work out which one suits your needs for ease of set up versus the views you get from it. Sometimes there’s a trade off on certain things here, hence why you may eventually end up owning numerous scopes that can cover quite a lot of bases for you observation wise.