I think you'll be very pleased with a 10" dob IF:
- you're fit and strong. I'm getting on a bit and find an 8" awkward to shift around,
- you have somewhere to store it within easy reach of your viewing area. Don't underestimate how much space it will take up. I got myself one of those small dollies on castors like they use for moving plant pots and screwed a piece of plywood to it and the dob sits on that, making it a doddle to move around inside at least.
- you're good at collimation. There's no way you can look through the focuser and adjust the knobs at the same time unless you have arms like a gorilla, so you'll need a laser collimator, Cheshire, etc.
Finally, you'll soon get used to nudging the dob without tracking. If your EPs have quite wide fields of view, this helps. I'd recommend using an RDF AND a RACI together for finding targets, especially if you suffer from light pollution.
My personal recommendation is for a StellaLyra 10": they're very well made and equipped and have extremely smooth alt/az adjustment.