Walking on eggshells here 😂. As @ollypenrice has stated the reflector if collimated properly will provide better views especially on brighter targets like the moon and planets due to not suffering from chromatic aberration. If the refractor were an ED(extra low dispersion) or a triplet then it would be better than the reflector. The larger aperture of 130mm will not be so much of a gain due to its central obstruction causing loss of contrast. For some people the chromatic aberration doesn’t seem to be a problem while for others, myself included it’s off putting. If you can cope with the collimation aspects of the reflector then I would go for that, if not then get the refractor. Good luck with whatever you choose.