Hi Paul,
I just stumbled across this thread and, as the Secretary of Liverpool AS, I thought I should respond.
Firstly, I'd like to apologise if our members seemed to ignore you and, separately, your friend. Whilst I don't believe any of them would do this deliberately, it doesn't change the fact that it happened. I suspect it was probably a case of the bystander-effect - everybody thought somebody else would do it.
If you can tell me the dates when it happened (even roughly), I can check the signing-in book to see who was there on those evenings and speak with them, but I'll also speak to the larger group to remind them that if they see somebody new who is on their own to go over to them and say hello, have a chat, etc.
It greatly worries and upsets me that there is a perception of a clique within our Society and our membership.
Yours sincerely,
Mark Galvin
Secretary,
Liverpool Astronomical Society