Excellent. Good to hear that some progress is being made. It will all come good very soon.
It all certainly sounds like there is some inconsistency with the Mesu com port assignment. That needs to be stabilised first. When the com port is right it sounds as though things are starting to work properly.
When I was setting up my Mesu I had very similar issues, but there is a way through it all. When you next have a go, try going through these steps:
Connect SiTech exe and check that it does not stay on Reading Servo Parms, if it does, sort out com port.
Open SGP and connect to camera and Mesu
Open up CDC and connect to Mesu
Click ‘Start’ in SiTech exe (rather than Unpark), that sets it into Blind Tracking mode
Move the Mesu using the buttons in SiTech exe to a convenient part of the sky, not too near the NCP
Do a Blind Solve from within SGP
When it solves the image, SiTech will bring up its Init dialog box, Click on Offset Init
The mount should now be initialised and tracking properly
Slew the Mesu to your chosen park position using the buttons in SiTech exe
Click Stop in SiTech exe
Click Set Park Position
Click Park
Phew, all good and working perfectly...
Now click UnPark, either from within SGP or in SiTech exe
Choose a place in CDC to slew to and click Slew in CDC
Hopefully the mount will move to roughly the right place
Do a Solve & Sync from within SGP
When the Init Dialog comes up it should default to an Offset Init, if it doesn’t, click Offset Init, otherwise let the countdown run out and it will do an auto Offset Init.
You now have a perfectly functioning system... slew to your target and get on with everything!