I found the same thing when I was developing software. Luckily I had a friend who was reasonably computer savvy but not very technical. I would run my documentation past her to see if it was understandable. Also, in the early days of Ubuntu I ran a documentation and beginners guide to Ubuntu web site and explained Linux in terms a Windows user could understand.
Writing documentation that was dumbed down from the very technical language that I was used to both in my career and later, used to be my forte. Around the turn of this century I gave classes to our local Women's Institute on starting to use computers. Personally I think documentation is a very important part of any software but can easily be forgotten in the drive to develop Open Source software.