Dave, just for my sanity, that parfocal ring is passive, yes? I use a small piece of electrical insulation tape to mark the focus position. I guess this achieves the same thing, albeit less pleasing on the eye?
I do have trouble getting fine focus (using the front thread after loosening the locking ring). The single FWHM tool in Sharpcap works, but moving the focus invariably moves the FOV, moving the search box from around the chosen star. Guidescope is firmly clamped! However, I do find that for guiding precise focus isn't necessary. Indeed, I've seen recommendations to slightly deliberately defocus.
Mike