Hahaha, my thoughts exactly! It doesn't need to be returned till January and was bought locally so we'll be hanging on will we're sure we have something.
Lots more reading has me liking the look of the Heritage 100p which is, of course, out of stock everywhere. I like the Heritage 76 but also seems to be out of stock. I'll keep searching! I have found the celestron firstscope locally and I'm considering buying that while it's available while still looking for a heritage. If I can get one in time I can return the firstscope and if not I think I'd rather have paid less for a basic tabletop and upgrade soon if he keeps interested than have paid even more for a more complicated one that might not work out to be handy for him. At this rate I may have a collection of telescopes to return by Christmas.
As for binoculars, I'm definitely on the hunt for a small, cheap pair that he can hold and use easily. I was looking for 8x42 but finding it hard to find ones that have the IPD listed, is 8x30 going too small to still be of any use to him? I'm seeing a lot of kiddie binoculars that are even smaller (8x21 I think) which I'm guessing really won't show him much at all.
And thanks for all that Alan, I think we'll probably be returning the Polaris but I really appreciate you taking the time to explain about the tripod!