I'm sorry for retracing what I know is a fairly well trodden path... There are, perhaps, a few twists though.
I've always wanted a telescope. My partner used to have a 3" refractor and still misses it. Our son is 6 1/2 and would probably enjoy looking at planets and 'wow' objects but realistically is likely to have limited interest at this stage. He's reasonably interested in space things - 'the Martian' used to be his comfort film (sick in bed, he'd watch it several times in a day).
I've settled on a Cassegrain type telescope, because my impression is that you get more for your money than with refractors. I remember being lifted up to look through the eyepiece of a big Newtonian when I was about my son's age. It was a bit awkward and I wouldn't fancy lifting my son for any length of time, so I hoped that something with the eyepiece at the mirror-end of the tube would be easier for him to use.
The next question is whether to get a GOTO mount or not? Again, I've tried to learn the constellations before and had limited success. But the cheaper mounts look very plasticky to me. I can see the point in a GOTO mount, but given the apps you have on mobile phones these days, are they as necessary as they used to be? Do you miss out on part of the astronomy experience if you don't learn your way around the sky? If I set up and aligned an equatorial mount with a motor drive, presumably a phone app could give me the co-ordinates to see whichever object I'm interested in? I note I could add a GOTO system for about £300.
At the moment I'm split between the Nexstar 8SE which is currently at £1104 on Amazon, or a combination of a SkyWatcher 180 Makutsov, which I understand may be a bit better for planets; decent for most deep-sky objects, and which I can get for about £1000 with an EQ5 mount. I am unlikely to get terribly interested in Astrophotography. I read about Schmidt-Cassegrains being a bit more delicate because of the thinner corrector plate and this pushes me slightly towards the Makutsov, despite the extra weight.
Thanks in advance for any thoughts.