here is a step by step method i use....there are other ways
1) export your image it into photoshop
2) select all and copy
3) paste onto a new document
4) convert to grayscale, select all and copy again
5) paste onto the original image
6) with the grey image selected in layers, go to select colour range, set the fuzzyness to about 100, and click on one of the bright stars.
7) go to select modify and expand set it to 2 pixels
8) go to feather and set it to 1 pixel
9) ok now you have your stars selected switch to the rgb layer
10) go to filters, others and minimum set it to 1 and click ok
11) edit and fade it until you like the result
12 delete the gray layer
the reason for making a grey layer is so you select all the stars rather than just one of a specific colour
this can be useful when narrow band imaging to get your star sizes equal in each channel...it helps with pink stars!